January 5, 2021 7:54

Being in a relationship with someone for over 15 years is not always rosy and peachy. I think the root of the problem, at least for me, is the high expectations and lack of communication.

It's one of the biggest clich├Ęs that men need to talk more about their feelings. I think in our relationship it's the other way round. I've learned my lessons a long time ago and talking about my feelings and emotions is quite natural to me. I think that in this area my wife has a lot of room for improvement. Or maybe it's just that she doesn't feel comfortable or safe enough around me to talk about her emotions, dreams and expectations. I don't know.

Santa's Little Helper

A middle-aged man trying to get my thoughts in order.